Divorce! please Don’t make it a trend! Although its Allowed! but, its also the most hated lawful act by Allah!
This post is for all the beautiful Muslim couples! Please read it!
Assalamualikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu!
Although divorce Is allowed in Islam, but its also the most hated lawful thing in the sight of Allah, therefore it should be taken as the last option , when no other option is left! rather making it a trend!!!
--->The Prophet (peace be upon him) said
One should not give divorce in anger or in rage as the anger is from shaitan and the divorce is the most pleasing act to him!
and he is an enemy to you!!!
--->The Messenger of Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said that Shaytaan (the devil) sits on his throne daily and dispatches his agents to work among human beings. One of the agents returns and says that I made a certain person commit a sin, another says I got so and so involved in this offence. Upon listening to all this Shaytaan says that you have done nothing great. Eventually one representative comes and says that I saw a husband and wife extremely devoted to each other. I sowed the seeds of enmity between them. On hearing this Shaytaan becomes happy and embracing his agent says that you have achieved something great.
(MISHKAT)
Rather you should control your anger! And most importantly! to beat your wife is not in any way, an act of courage or pride rather,
its the most cowardliness act of all!!!
--->"He is not strong who throws people down, but he is strong among us who controls himself when he is angry." [Bukhari and Muslim]
If you dislike an act or a habbit of your wife then you should be patient! As it may be that some other act or habbit of her would be good!
You should be kind to her!!!
--->"Live with them on a footing of kindness and equity. If you take a dislike to them, it may be that you dislike a thing while Allah brings about through it a great deal of good."
[Qur’an 4:19]
Allah has created your spouses, so that you would find tranquility with them and Allah has put love and mercy between you!
Realize it!!!
--->"Among His signs is the fact that he has created spouses from among yourselves, so that you may find tranquillity with them; and he has put love and mercy between you…."
[Qur’an 30:21]
They are your garments and you are their’s, so,
conceal and preserve them!!!
And just like a garment conceal and preserve your modesty, your purity, your weaknesses. etc so should you too!
Remember! The best amongst you are those who are kindest to your wife!
--->"…The best among them are those who are kindest to their wives." [Bukhari and Muslim]
And lastly a beautiful hadith for mashallah all the beautiful couples!
may Allah preserve your relation!!! Ameen!
--->When a husband and wife look at each other with Love, Allah looks at both with Mercy" [Bukhari 6:19 & Tirmidhi 14:7]
like & share! & spread the word everywhere!
jazak Allah khair! ^_^
This post is for all the beautiful Muslim couples! Please read it!
Assalamualikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu!
Although divorce Is allowed in Islam, but its also the most hated lawful thing in the sight of Allah, therefore it should be taken as the last option , when no other option is left! rather making it a trend!!!
--->The Prophet (peace be upon him) said
"The most hateful of all lawful things, in the sight of Allah, is divorce."
(Abu Dau’d’s) One should not give divorce in anger or in rage as the anger is from shaitan and the divorce is the most pleasing act to him!
and he is an enemy to you!!!
--->The Messenger of Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said that Shaytaan (the devil) sits on his throne daily and dispatches his agents to work among human beings. One of the agents returns and says that I made a certain person commit a sin, another says I got so and so involved in this offence. Upon listening to all this Shaytaan says that you have done nothing great. Eventually one representative comes and says that I saw a husband and wife extremely devoted to each other. I sowed the seeds of enmity between them. On hearing this Shaytaan becomes happy and embracing his agent says that you have achieved something great.
(MISHKAT)
Rather you should control your anger! And most importantly! to beat your wife is not in any way, an act of courage or pride rather,
its the most cowardliness act of all!!!
--->"He is not strong who throws people down, but he is strong among us who controls himself when he is angry." [Bukhari and Muslim]
If you dislike an act or a habbit of your wife then you should be patient! As it may be that some other act or habbit of her would be good!
You should be kind to her!!!
--->"Live with them on a footing of kindness and equity. If you take a dislike to them, it may be that you dislike a thing while Allah brings about through it a great deal of good."
[Qur’an 4:19]
Realize it!!!
--->"Among His signs is the fact that he has created spouses from among yourselves, so that you may find tranquillity with them; and he has put love and mercy between you…."
[Qur’an 30:21]
They are your garments and you are their’s, so,
conceal and preserve them!!!
--->"They (wives) are garments for you, while you are garments for them."
[Qur’an 2:187] And just like a garment conceal and preserve your modesty, your purity, your weaknesses. etc so should you too!
Remember! The best amongst you are those who are kindest to your wife!
may Allah preserve your relation!!! Ameen!
--->When a husband and wife look at each other with Love, Allah looks at both with Mercy" [Bukhari 6:19 & Tirmidhi 14:7]
like & share! & spread the word everywhere!
jazak Allah khair! ^_^
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